Proven Ways To Know If You Are Socially Inept ( At Least To Some Extent)

Bed Intelligence

You would like it if she went down on you at last? A casual talk while breakfasting together misses the point? Truth is if she said she will not be willing to bend she won’t. No matter how desperately the girl you are dating tries to explain her negative past experiences with a blow job you are adamant that she does something about it. During an initial stage of hugging and snogging she indeed goes on you but just to stop above the finishing line. Disappointed by that performance you push her head so that she knows what you demand at the moment but you score nothing and she turns her back on you. For those wondering how come or it is a real life scenario let us pass on this question. Frustration indeed rears its ugly head (pun intended) but when it comes to sacrificing yourself in bed to keep your man satisfied does not yield the desirable results. Table and bed manners seem like a forgotten song which does not mean passion and willigness to experiment are to be forgone. Not in the long or short run when striving for true intimacy in a long term relationship.

House Intelligence

OK your mom would love to point it out that whenever you fight over housework this is usually the guy’s Achilles heel. Hey but your momma taugt you nicely to say hi and thank you and all those little cliches that makes the neighbourly lives so much fun you get when you know you conform. What of the girl then you brought home only to observe she misses out on the house trained wisdom? Her mum most likely has forgotten to mention that lovely rule when you enter the guy’s place keep it neat. Indeed you like the place near but the girl’s resilience to learn from experience with you being a teacher is obviously lacking. So you play her dad and mom and you both talk how cleanliness and orderliness define you as a human being. It is not that she stacked the plates so high only to compose the house sort leaning tower of Piza it is just you own the place and yet somehow she fails to notice. Unbearable to say the least Watson. Deep in your soul there is already a suspicion she may not be the one which is confirmed when she denies having to do anything after an illuminating monologue while she clenches her fists in despair. Now it is not to say that she would love to remodel the place into a pigsty it is just this lingering feeling somewhere back of your mind that things are not just going the way you want them to be.

Manners and Mannerism All Over Again Luv

With all that niceness as your armor sported when dealing with people around you do trip all over and stumble upon certain social cues where only the initiated have a cluse while you do not. Trespassing signs will not be of much help as the blindfolds are firmly in place. You rush to help the elderly neighbor but fail to observe the inappropriate moments when you literally trip yourself. In place of leaving the place and people who are suffering alone to come back later when they recover you push for the financial issues to be explained. Ok so your family has just had a near shave with their kiddos strapped in the back but your focus is on yourself only. A lovely fight ensues and your life relationship with a dearly loved cousin hangs by a thread. Too bad you were somewhat unaware before you took the plunge.

Categories: Psychology